Same ole Shit, Different DayWe all know that girl who complains about her dude constantly, breaks up and makes up, on going same soap opera drama for years now. They ask you for advice, but never listen. After a while, you just are fed up with hearing it and refuse to continue to try and get some sense into them. What is making this girl stay. The guy can come clean admit his faults and then get right back into the same thing he has been doing. Why? Because that bitch keeps letting him do it. She continues to waddle in her mud puddle of a relationship, hurt all the time; and the worst part, complains. This has been going on for so long that it just becomes a routine that she thinks is love. Then you hear her say something like, "Girl, the love just keeps us together." Bitch, please. Stop making excuses for the fucked up situation you call a relationship. I remember the first time I heard Sevyn Streeter's "I Like It." I thought it was a catchy song and then I really started listening to it. She's singing happily about some fucked up relationship she's calling love and I sure some basic bitch is singing along and tweeting the lyrics talking about how it sounds like her and Rodney. Same girl that's telling the girl he just left her for "He gone be back, bitch. He always comes home. He can't stay away from me." And her best friend has to listen to her cry about how she can't believe he did the same shit he did the year before. Is it the fear of starting over with someone new what's keeping her there? Or the fact that she really thinks this is what love is? Real love is not supposed to hurt, it's the extra bull shit that does.
Confused NiggasThe Joe Budden, Tahiry, Kaylin situation is the most amusing to watch. This old ass nigga is Tahiry again. But if you follow her on Instagram, you know that his ass went right back to Kaylin. He did one of the most common tricks that guys do to keep someone around, and it worked. I saw how people laughed and was amused for which ever girl's team they were on. But in the end, both women are getting played. Tahiry has been getting played the longest because she's been doing it to her for 5 years. Kaylin for a shorter amount of time but she still knows of his past and saw how he continuously went back to Tahiry and still fell for the shit. I don't understand. This is elementary. These games that are being played are not any kind of complicated strategy that they have thought long and hard about to trick you. No, it's quite simple. You know how when you were a child you realized that if you just admitted to what you did, the punishment was not as bad. You should have learned this game a long ass time ago.
obviously a quite confused man child. He has it down to a science. Just be honest about not know what I want, come clean, and the girl will be understanding and I can come back whenever I want. He decides to talk about it so he can get some "understanding" for his actions and the girl just sympathizes with him. I fell for this shit once; I definitely can spot it out a mile away. Guys like keeping a girl around or in the back ground so they can come back whenever. And most of us fall for it until we finally get smart, some slower than others. At the end of the season, he appears to be with
Drama QueensI've come to the conclusion that some girls just like the drama. They feed off the the back and forth and the feeling that he can't let her go. What they don't realize is that she is just convenient. These types of girls keep getting in the same type of relationships, no matter who it is. That's their idea of love. Mess. "He don't love you unless he *insert dumb as action*." This will be the same girl wondering why her ass ain't got a ring yet or who finds her self with his kids while he goes back and forth between her and other girls. If that's love, I got the game all wrong. He's never going to grown up if she keeps letting him get away with the same childish tricks. They can have that; I want the real thing.
I can't do any betterI feel like a lot of women come to be content in these situations is because they feel all men are the same. No, they aren't but they do have to go through that not shit stage before they become a great man. Your ass just needs to learn how to spot out the bullshit or at least not keep waddling in it. This nigga got your head so gone that you think it's real love. Trust me. When you have a man treat you the way you're supposed to be different, you'll realize that those little adolescent type relationships you were in were Child's Play. Why stay and cry when you can live life? You got him didn't you? There are other people out there you can pull. Rodney isn't the only man that's going to be with you. I understand that a lot of people have not had good examples of relationships in their lives when they were growing up, but you gotta learn from yourself and others. I know you can feel what hurts and what doesn't. Whether you have a child with him or not, it doesn't limit you to having to put up with his shit if it's not a healthy relationship. There's never a reason for you to feel like you're stuck in a bad romance.
In the end, you control what situation you're in. If you don't want to be there anymore, leave. If you do, "No More Complaining either put up with it or let it go."